Have
you noticed people who are unaware they are sick and the day they become aware
of their sick state that is when they start feeling very sick? I heard of a guy
who has HIV for God knows when and not until the day he was told of his status
(through his girlfriend) did he began to feel sick. I have heard of people who
while climbing a tall mountain become afraid only when they look down. Many
have reached heights or conquered challenges when their attention was not
totally focused on the obstacles in front of them because at that time there
was nothing to fear. Awareness to the obstacle breeds fear and has deprived
many of the goals and victory ahead. The bible even taught of one Peter who walked
on the sea while looking at Jesus and not until he began to see the turbulent
sea wave did he began to sink. His fears were awakened when he became aware of
the environment he was in. Of a truth fear has torment. It has ruined many; it
has broken many homes and destroyed many relationships.
It
is true fear can be destructive, but many through fear have achieved
innumerable feats. These people have become great through the motivation derived
from their fears. To some this fear is poverty; to some it is illiteracy; to
some it is sickness or their spouse, boss or business. So many people have
turned this fear to their favor; some have stopped the mouth of lions, some
have conquered nations, some have gotten great jobs, married pretty women,
obtained promises, were valiant in fight, escaped dark situations, led small
armies to victory, built empires, became great inventors, utilized
opportunities, attracted benefits and above all, many have become great. I am
not interested in fear analysis for now; I am just convinced it is a recipe for greatness and I do hope you will understand when you are through reading this piece.
The
story goes of a wealthy man who had only one daughter. When the daughter was of
marriage age, the father sent news around town that all the eligible young men
should come to compete in a test which would determine who was fit to marry his
daughter. On that set day, all the able-bodied young men came out. Some came
with paper and pen and others with cutlasses and swords. The rich man took them
to his swimming pool and addressed the men: "Any of you who can swim from
one end of this swimming pool to the other would marry my daughter. In
addition, I‘ll give him $5m, a car and a house so they can start life well. I
shall be waiting to meet my son-in-law at the other side. Good luck!" As
the young men, all very excited at the prospect of winning, started taking off
their shirts, a helicopter came over the pool and dropped snakes and crocodiles
into the pool. Immediately all the men turned back and started wearing their
shirts again. Disappointed, some of them said let the man marry his daughter, I
can't enjoy d prize when I die.... All of a sudden they heard a splash in the
pool. Everybody watched in amazement as one gentleman struggled his way across,
avoiding the snakes and crocodiles. Finally, he made it to the other side. The
rich man could not believe it. He asked the young man to name anything he
wanted but the man was still panting uncontrollably. Finally, he got himself
and made a request saying "Please someone should show me the idiot that pushed
me inside this pool".
Funny
huh? While fear has made many to shy away from the goal, fear has made many as
well to obtain victory and achieve their goal. Some people see the hole in the
doughnut while others see the doughnut in the hole. It all depends on what you
see and how you see it.
While
watching the ‘Karate kid”, I was inspired when Jacky Chan asked Jaden Smith why
he wanted to keep fighting…his answer was puzzling. “But why do you want to
keep fighting Jacky asked? Because I am still scared he answered”. I would
think, fear would make him want to quit fighting, I would think his broken leg
would shut him down completely; I would think the fierceness of his opponent
would make him run away like a whirl wind. Well not for this young hero, his
fear was what drove him hard like the guy in our story. Mind you, this
guy (Jaden Smith) did not compete basically for the trophy; he competed to win
over his fear which is a higher trophy in my opinion. I don’t know what is
holding you down or depriving you from achieving that dream of yours. My father
told me, not until your dream scares you terribly, you have not started
dreaming. You shouldn’t be afraid to dream big; if you are afraid because of
the hugeness of your dream then you are on the right path so says my father.
But that fear should be your drive and motivation towards achieving the goal.
That fear in my opinion is a good one and will set you apart. It will certainly
beautify your life and put you on the path to greatness if not greatness itself.
If you master your fear, you can conquer
all and anything.
May your future be bright.